Nelson Mandela, Anti-apartheid Icon and Father of Modern South Africa, Dies


Freedom fighter, statesman, moral compass and South Africa’s symbol of the struggle against racial oppression.
filephoto Nelson Mandela
Nelson Mandela
That was Nelson Mandela, who emerged from prison after 27 years to lead his country out of decades of apartheid.
He died Thursday night at age 95.
His message of forgiveness, not vengeance, inspired the world after he negotiated a peaceful end to segregation and urged forgiveness for the white government that imprisoned him.
“As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn’t leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I’d still be in prison,” Mandela said after he was freed in in 1990.
Mandela, a former president, battled health issues in recent years, including a recurring lung infection that led to numerous hospitalizations.
Despite rare public appearances, he held a special place in the consciousness of the nation and the world.
“Our nation has lost its greatest son. Our people have lost a father,” South African President Jacob Zuma said. “What made Nelson Mandela great was precisely what made him human. We saw in him what we seek in ourselves.”
His U.S. counterpart, Barack Obama, echoed the same sentiment.
“We’ve lost one of the most influential, courageous and profoundly good human beings that any of us will share time with on this Earth,” Obama said. “He no longer belongs to us — he belongs to the ages.”
A hero to blacks and whites
Mandela became the nation’s conscience as it healed from the scars of apartheid.
His defiance of white minority rule and long incarceration for fighting against segregation focused the world’s attention on apartheid, the legalized racial segregation enforced by the South African government until 1994.
In his lifetime, he was a man of complexities. He went from a militant freedom fighter, to a prisoner, to a unifying figure, to an elder statesman.
Years after his 1999 retirement from the presidency, Mandela was considered the ideal head of state. He became a yardstick for African leaders, who consistently fell short when measured against him.
Warm, lanky and charismatic in his silk, earth-toned dashikis, he was quick to admit to his shortcomings, endearing him further in a culture in which leaders rarely do.
His steely gaze disarmed opponents. So did his flashy smile.
Former South African President F.W. de Klerk, who was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize with Mandela in 1993 for transitioning the nation from a system of racial segregation, described their first meeting.
“I had read, of course, everything I could read about him beforehand. I was well-briefed,” he said.
“I was impressed, however, by how tall he was. By the ramrod straightness of his stature, and realized that this is a very special man. He had an aura around him. He’s truly a very dignified and a very admirable person.”
For many South Africans, he was simply Madiba, his traditional clan name. Others affectionately called him Tata, the word for father in his Xhosa tribe.
A nation on edge
Mandela last appeared in public during the 2010 World Cup hosted by South Africa. His absences from the limelight and frequent hospitalizations left the nation on edge, prompting Zuma to reassure citizens every time he fell sick.
“Mandela is woven into the fabric of the country and the world,” said Ayo Johnson, director of Viewpoint Africa, which sells content about the continent to media outlets.
When he was around, South Africans had faith that their leaders would live up to the nation’s ideals, according to Johnson.
“He was a father figure, elder statesman and global ambassador,” Johnson said. “He was the guarantee, almost like an insurance policy, that South Africa’s young democracy and its leaders will pursue the nation’s best interests.”
There are telling nuggets of Mandela’s character in the many autobiographies about him.
An unmovable stubbornness. A quick, easy smile. An even quicker frown when accosted with a discussion he wanted no part of.
War averted
Despite chronic political violence before the vote that put him in office in 1994, South Africa avoided a full-fledged civil war in its transition from apartheid to multiparty democracy. The peace was due in large part to the leadership and vision of Mandela and de Klerk.
“We were expected by the world to self-destruct in the bloodiest civil war along racial grounds,” Mandela said during a 2004 celebration to mark a decade of democracy in South Africa.
“Not only did we avert such racial conflagration, we created amongst ourselves one of the most exemplary and progressive nonracial and nonsexist democratic orders in the contemporary world.”
Mandela represented a new breed of African liberation leaders, breaking from others of his era such as Robert Mugabe by serving one term.
In neighboring Zimbabwe, Mugabe has been president since 1987. A lot of African leaders overstayed their welcomes and remained in office for years, sometimes decades, making Mandela an anomaly.
But he was not always popular in world capitals.
Until 2008, the United States had placed him and other members of the African National Congress on its terror list because of their militant fight against the apartheid regime.
Humble beginnings
Rolihlahla Mandela started his journey in the tiny village of Mvezo, in the hills of the Eastern Cape, where he was born on July 18, 1918. His teacher later named him Nelson as part of a custom to give all schoolchildren Christian names.
His father died when he was 9, and the local tribal chief took him in and educated him.
Mandela attended school in rural Qunu, where he retreated before returning to Johannesburg to be near medical facilities.
He briefly attended University College of Fort Hare but was expelled after taking part in a protest with Oliver Tambo, with whom he later operated the nation’s first black law firm.
In subsequent years, he completed a bachelor’s degree through correspondence courses and studied law at the University of Witwatersrand in Johannesburg. He left without graduating in 1948.
Four years before he left the university, he helped form the youth league of the African National Congress, hoping to transform the organization into a more radical movement. He was dissatisfied with the ANC and its old-guard politics.
And so began Mandela’s civil disobedience and lifelong commitment to breaking the shackles of segregation in South Africa.
Escalating trouble
In 1956, Mandela and dozens of other political activists were charged with high treason for activities against the government. His trial lasted five years, but he was ultimately acquitted.
Meanwhile, the fight for equality got bloodier.
Four years after his treason charges, police shot 69 unarmed black protesters in Sharpeville township as they demonstrated outside a station. The Sharpeville Massacre was condemned worldwide, and it spurred Mandela to take a more militant tone in the fight against apartheid.
The South African government outlawed the ANC after the massacre, and an angry Mandela went underground to form a new military wing of the organization.
“There are many people who feel that it is useless and futile for us to continue talking peace and nonviolence against a government whose reply is only savage attacks on an unarmed and defenseless people,” Mandela said during his time on the run.
During that period, he left South Africa and secretly traveled under a fake name. The press nicknamed him “the Black Pimpernel” because of his police evasion tactics.
Militant resistance
The African National Congress heeded calls for stronger action against the apartheid regime, and Mandela helped launch an armed wing to attack government symbols, including post offices and offices.
The armed struggle was a defense mechanism against government violence, he said.
“My people, Africans, are turning to deliberate acts of violence and of force against the government in order to persuade the government, in the only language which this government shows by its own behavior that it understands,” Mandela said at the time.
“If there is no dawning of sanity on the part of the government — ultimately, the dispute between the government and my people will finish up by being settled in violence and by force. “
The campaign of violence against the state resulted in civilian casualties.
Long imprisonment
In 1962, Mandela secretly received military training in Morocco and Ethiopia. When he returned home later that year, he was arrested and charged with illegal exit of the country and incitement to strike.
Mandela represented himself at the trial and was briefly imprisoned before being returned to court. In 1964, after the famous Rivonia trial, he was sentenced to life in prison for sabotage and conspiracy to overthrow the government.
At the trial, instead of testifying, he opted to give a speech that was more than four hours long, and ended with a defiant statement.
“I have fought against white domination, and I have fought against black domination,” he said. “I have cherished the ideal of a democratic and free society in which all persons live together in harmony and with equal opportunities. It is an ideal which I hope to live for and to achieve. But if needs be, it is an ideal for which I am prepared to die.”
His next stop was the Robben Island prison, where he spent 18 of his 27 years in detention. He described his early days there as harsh.
“There was a lot of physical abuse, and many of my colleagues went through that humiliation,” he said.
One of those colleagues was Khehla Shubane, 57, who was imprisoned in Robben Island during Mandela’s last years there. Though they were in different sections of the prison, he said, Mandela was a towering figure.
“He demanded better rights for us all in prison. The right to get more letters, get newspapers, listen to the radio, better food, right to study,” Shubane said. “It may not sound like much to the outside world, but when you are in prison, that’s all you have.”
And Mandela’s khaki prison pants, he said, were always crisp and ironed.
“Most of us chaps were lazy, we would hang our clothes out to dry and wear them with creases. We were in a prison, we didn’t care. But Mandela, every time I saw him, he looked sharp.”
After 18 years, he was transferred to other prisons, where he experienced better conditions until he was freed in 1990.
Months before his release, he obtained a bachelor’s in law in absentia from the University of South Africa.
Calls for release
His freedom followed years of an international outcry led by Winnie Mandela, a social worker whom he married in 1958, three months after divorcing his first wife.
Mandela was banned from reading newspapers, but his wife provided a link to the outside world.
She told him of the growing calls for his release and updated him on the fight against apartheid.
World pressure mounted to free Mandela with the imposition of political, economic and sporting sanctions, and the white minority government became more isolated.
In 1988 at age 70, Mandela was hospitalized with tuberculosis, a disease whose effects plagued him until the day he died. He recovered and was sent to a minimum security prison farm, where he was given his own quarters and could receive additional visitors.
Among them, in an unprecedented meeting, was South Africa’s president, P.W. Botha.
Change was in the air.
When Botha’s successor, de Klerk, took over, he pledged to negotiate an end to apartheid.
Free at last
On February 11, 1990, Mandela walked out of prison to thunderous applause, his clenched right fist raised above his head.
Still as upright and proud, he would say, as the day he walked into prison nearly three decades earlier.
He reassured ANC supporters that his release was not part of a government deal and informed whites that he intended to work toward reconciliation.
Four years after his release, in South Africa’s first multiracial elections, he became the nation’s first black president.
“The day he was inducted as president, we stood on the terraces of the Union Building,” de Klerk remembered years later. “He took my hand and lifted it up. He put his arm around me, and we showed a unity that resounded through South Africa and the world.”
Broken marriage, then love
His union to Winnie Mandela, however, did not have such a happy ending. They officially divorced in 1996.
For the two, it was a fiery love story, derailed by his ambition to end apartheid. During his time in prison, Mandela wrote his wife long letters, expressing his guilt at putting political activism before family. Before the separation, Winnie Mandela was implicated in violence, including a conviction for being an accessory to assault in the death of a teenage township activist.
Mandela found love again two years after the divorce.
On his 80th birthday, he married Graca Machel, the widow of former Mozambique president, Samora Machel.
Only three of Mandela’s children are still alive. He had 17 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.
Symbolic rugby
South Africa’s fight for reconciliation was epitomized at the 1995 rugby World Cup Final in Johannesburg, when it played heavily favored New Zealand.
As the dominant sport of white Afrikaners, rugby was reviled by blacks in South Africa. They often cheered for rivals playing their national team.
Mandela’s deft use of the national team to heal South Africa was captured in director Clint Eastwood’s 2009 feature film “Invictus,” starring Morgan Freeman as Mandela and Matt Damon as Francois Pienaar, the white South African captain of the rugby team.
Before the real-life game, Mandela walked onto the pitch, wearing a green-and-gold South African jersey bearing Pienaar’s number on the back.
“I will never forget the goosebumps that stood on my arms when he walked out onto the pitch before the game started,” said Rory Steyn, his bodyguard for most of his presidency.
“That crowd, which was almost exclusively white … started to chant his name. That one act of putting on a No. 6 jersey did more than any other statement in bringing white South Africans and Afrikaners on side with new South Africa.”
A promise honored
In 1999, Mandela did not seek a second term as president, keeping his promise to serve only one term. Thabo Mbeki succeeded him in June of the same year.
After leaving the presidency, he retired from active politics, but remained in the public eye, championing causes such as human rights, world peace and the fight against AIDS.
It was a decision born of tragedy: His only surviving son, Makgatho Mandela, died of AIDS at age 55 in 2005. Another son, Madiba Thembekile, was killed in a car crash in 1969.
Mandela’s 90th birthday party in London’s Hyde Park was dedicated to HIV awareness and prevention, and was titled 46664, his prison number on Robben Island.
A resounding voice
Mandela continued to be a voice for developing nations.
He criticized U.S. President George W. Bush for launching the 2003 war against Iraq, and accused the United States of “wanting to plunge the world into a Holocaust.”
And as he was acclaimed as the force behind ending apartheid, he made it clear he was only one of many who helped transform South Africa into a democracy.
In 2004, a few weeks before he turned 86, he announced his retirement from public life to spend more time with his loved ones.
“Don’t call me, I’ll call you,” he said as he stepped away from his hectic schedule.
‘Like a boy of 15′
But there was a big treat in store for the avid sportsman.
When South Africa was awarded the 2010 football World Cup, Mandela said he felt “like a boy of 15.”
In July that year, Mandela beamed and waved at fans during the final of the tournament in Johannesburg’s Soccer City. It was his last public appearance.
“I would like to be remembered not as anyone unique or special, but as part of a great team in this country that has struggled for many years, for decades and even centuries,” he said. “The greatest glory of living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time you fall.”
With him gone, South Africans are left to embody his promise and idealism.

300 Persons Displaced In Maiduguri Attacks – NEMA

Scenes-of-the-Maiduguri-attacks-1-360x225The National Emergency Management Agency, North East Zone, on Wednesday confirmed that 300 people were displaced during the Dec. 1 insurgent attack at some military formations in Maiduguri.
The confirmation is contained in a statement signed by Information Officer of the agency, Mr Abdulkadir Ibrahim, and made available to News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Yola.
“NEMA has carried out assessment on the victims of recent attack at the 33 Artillery barrack in Maiduguri.
“After the assessment, 300 people were confirmed internally displaced and emergency relief materials like beds, blankets and mosquito nets have been given to them.
“The victims had their residential buildings destroyed in the attack,” Ibrahim said.
The officer said that the gesture was in fulfilment of the agency’s mandate of providing succour to victims of attacks. (NAN)

Funke Akindele’s Ex Husband Marks Second Wife’s Birthday With Her


Comic actress Funke Akindele’s divorced husband Kehinde Oloyede has obviously carried on with his life, as he recently celebrated the birthday of one of his wives and shared the photos on his Facebook page.
That wasn’t all, he also showered her with praises, writing: -
“Happy birthday to a wonderful wife, I wish you long life and prosperity in good health. Thank you for being there always, even when I go off track. Onisuru lo jogun ohun gbogbo.”




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Governor - Oshiomhole offers job, & donates N2m to widow he allegedly insulted

Chat212 - News Summary...
  • Governor Adams Oshiomhole offers job, donates N2m to widow he allegedly insulted.
  • From his statement “Let me apologise to you for the way I spoke to you" 'Go And Die' Widow.
Chat212 - Newsmail Report...
Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo on Monday donated N2m to a widow he allegedly insulted while on an inspection tour of the state.

The widow, Mrs. Joy Ifije, who was invited to the Edo Government House by the governor, was also offered automatic employment by Oshiomhole.

Oshiomhole had invited the widow to personally apologise to her over his uncomplimentary remark that had generated controversies in the conventional and social media in the last few weeks.

The governor said,  “Let me apologise to you for the way I spoke to you. I am very sorry about the statement.

“I have also realised that even in anger, one could still achieve the same result that he set out to without provocative outburst.

“I apologise from the bottom of my heart, but sometimes you get angry when people compromise your efforts.”

He said the government was trying to change the face of the state capital by doing its best to make the city beautiful.

The governor added that it was frustrating and bad for some people to truncate government efforts.

He stressed that trading on the road and walk ways could hinder free flow of traffic as well as cause accidents.

Oshiomhole, therefore, appealed to the widow to join in the campaign against road and walkways trading.

The governor said exposing consumables to unhygienic sanitary conditions could also cause ”disease and pose dangerous health hazards to humans.”

Oshiomhole, who also announced the automatic employment of the widow, said the employment would help her ease the burden of widowhood and give her children good and proper education.

He assured the widow that his family would assist the widow’s second child in furthering his education, while also appealing to her to resist the temptation of breaking the law.

The widow had earlier apologised to the governor for her action, saying ‘’ I know I was wrong, that was why I quickly knelt down to beg when I realised I was face to face with the Governor’’.



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asuu-logoUniversity lecturers in Nigeria have agreed to end the five-month old strike by the Academic Staff Union of Universities, ASUU, if the federal government agrees to three conditions, according to the Nigerian Eye.
The three conditions are expected to be made known to President Goodluck Jonathan today, after which the strike will be called off and if an agreement is reached.
Although, ASUU has forbidden its local chapters and zonal chairmen from talking to the press until the end of the session. A source, who was part of the ASUU session, which was held at Mambayya House in Kano, however revealed the conditions as:
1. Commitment from the President that any review or reconsideration or renegotiation of the 2009 Agreement will not substantially affect the pact which is the cause of the ongoing strike;
2. Immediate payment of all outstanding salary arrears and allowances of varsity teachers without victimization; and
3. A written commitment from the President that the Federal Government will commit N225 billion annually to the funding of universities for the next four years.
According to the source, “Our leaders are meeting with the President on Monday to table these conditions. Once the President accepts these three terms, the strike will be called off.
“In principle, members voted about 60-40 per cent to call off the strike, but they added a caveat – that ASUU leaders should extract a commitment (signed and sealed) from the President.”
“It became imperative for ASUU to makes these demands, as it became obvious that the FG wanted the 2009 Agreement to be renegotiated.
“If ASUU had accepted to renegotiate the entire Agreement, it means there will be no basis for the ongoing strike. The worst that can happen is either having the abridged version of the 2009 Agreement or a phased implementation of the document,” the source added.
He also added that the conditions are not just three, but the fourth is “personal” to ASUU.

Every man wants to be wanted. If you are trying to gain the affection of a particular gentleman, there are certain aspects of your personality that will pull him towards you. After all, you want to pull a man to you, not push him away. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and knows how to treat a man is invaluable. When a man finds a woman who possesses all of the right qualities, he will find himself in a state of bliss.
Confidence
If you know who you are as a woman, this is the first step of getting the man of your dreams. By conveying confidence in how you talk and walk, your love interest will notice that you are strong. If you can stand on your own without him, he will want to stand beside you. Because you do not need a man, you will become more attractive. A confident woman can handle any situation because she knows her worth. When a woman is insecure, a man can see it in her facial expressions, choice of words and how she treats the people around her. However, when a woman knows what she wants, men will find her irresistible.
 
Affection
Being an ice princess will get you nowhere near a man's heart. Men are attracted to women who know how to open up emotionally. Despite the misconception that men hate mushy women, men like to be taken care of. They enjoy hugs, kisses and many other signs of affection that only a woman can offer. The softness of a woman's body and words drive men crazy. If you are interested in a guy, be sure to show your softer side. Being affectionate does not mean hovering or acting clingy. Demonstrate your interest through encouraging words, pet names and slight touches, and he will not be able to stop thinking about you.
Admiration
Men like to feel admired by women. A woman who is able to show her man how proud she is of him through her words and actions will win over his heart. A man will not choose to be a woman who does not respect or admire his efforts. If he does not feel good about himself when is with you, then you do not stand a chance. Show him how much you admire his mind, and he will be yours before you know it.

As a woman, you are armed with all of the qualities that could make a man happy. However, seduction starts in the mind. Attraction is derived from a mixture of emotions, which can be stirred by another human being. In other words, you have more power in attracting the person who you desire than you may think. If you show a man how much you understand his needs through your actions, he will gravitate towards you.

Steps

  1. Have respect for yourself. As a woman, you need to have self respect (and lots of it). This can be in many forms, but one of the most telling forms is how you dress. A man will care nothing of what you have to say or are interested in if he is too distracted by your cleavage or how tight your jeans are. There is subtle and sexy, and then there is blatant and trampy. Understand that men are constantly drawn towards sexual images of women on tv, magazines, posters, mall windows and the likes on a daily basis. If you really want to be heard-make an effort to appear attractive and put together but don't wear clothes that suggest you are ready to get out of them at a moment's notice.
  2. Be competitive. Men are usually hard workers and enjoy healthy competition amongst themselves; anyone they can share that aspect with is a plus. If you enjoy a hobby that is physically demanding such as rock climbing, swimming, basketball, running or biking-share it with him. This is not to be mistaken with picking up a man, although attraction may naturally occur over time and certainly maybe a usable technique, we are talking about being taken seriously amongst friends, co-workers, and casual acquaintances. Be sure when you participate in the activity that you bring your A-game and put forth your best effort. Even if you aren't a pro at any sport or hobby, by being open to new challenges and giving something your best effort; men will respect you for it. Finding your balance by trying methods that work and don't work will ensure you get more comfortable with yourself and therefore, with other men. This can apply to work, school, hobbies, social gatherings, and the like.
  3. Be motivated and confident. Apart from enjoying friendly competition, a woman must demonstrate motivation for her life. If you walk around with your head hung low, a frown on your face and complain constantly, no man will take you seriously except for taking you seriously about being unhappy. Again, if you enjoy a hobby-talk about it and share it at an appropriate time. Have children? Discuss their latest successes in school with a smile and comment on how proud you are of them. Discuss any new business ideas you might have, or creative thoughts if they appear interested. Working on a new art piece? Writing a poem? Finishing a degree? Taking a new yoga class? If you smile, laugh and speak with enthusiasm about what you have going on in your life---men will see that you are motivated and confident and take you seriously. Keep in mind this can depend on how long you keep up with a task. If you are constantly changing college degrees, change your core hobbies like changing socks and are indecisive with what you want from your life-that may leave doubt in many people's minds...not just men.
  4. Make sure your ambitions are your own. Apart from having self respect, confidence, motivation and being competitive; you need to ask yourself for each aspect of your life, "Why am I doing this?" If you are doing stuff to simply impress a man, or men in general-you are doing it for the wrong reasons. In the same light, trust your instincts; only you can make decisions about your life and where you are heading. Not anyone else.
  5. Be intelligent and well spoken. While all the above steps can fit into anyone's life, one of the key factors in success with being taken seriously by men, is being intelligent and well spoken. How you speak goes with how you carry yourself (self respect and confidence). Appropriate grammar and tone, as well as how frequently you speak can make or break success in the workplace, amongst new acquaintances and in recreational activities. Although all women have different sounding voices (high, low, soft, etc.), it is important to remember that you are judged by your pitch, how much emphasis you put on words, and your laugh. Record yourself to improve how you present yourself to other people. If you let your voice trail off at the end of a sentence, you could be setting yourself back in terms of getting a job you want or an important message across. It is important to practice your body language in addition to your speaking. On the same note, how you say something requires that you have something important or interesting to say. There are many ways to be "intelligent" but for the most part-pursuing higher education is usually a good place to start...in addition to watching educational programs, reading books, and keeping up on the latest news. Similarly, watching movies, playing video games, and being familiar with sports teams will also make you more diverse in conversations. A woman who is well informed on various topics will have a better chance of being taken seriously by men (and other women) than the woman who only can discuss what kind of latest perfume a celebrity is coming out with.
  6. Take care of yourself. Grooming, hygiene, physical fitness, and regular health check-ups are a must. Appearances do matter, and being taken seriously requires you put effort into how you look. As mentioned previously, if you dress too provocatively you will not send across the right message. As a general rule for women in the work place, to check if your clothing is appropriate for the setting or for an interview, do the bend-over check. If you see any bit of cleavage or your skirt comes up way too high in the back when you bend over to touch your toes, changes are it is not work appropriate. If you have any doubts at all, don't risk it. Your reputation is more important than looking cute or stylish during important business transactions. Makeup is a controversial subject in terms of whether or not women should or should not wear it to be successful. This is honestly about preference. Many sources state that men prefer women with natural beauty or little-to-no makeup. However, some woman feel more confident with makeup. Keeping in mind the message you want to send-dark blue/black eyeshadow at 8:00 in the morning verses a natural light brown/gold eyeshadow applied lightly suggests two very different things. There are many tutorials online that can you pick a makeup looks for work or for night outings. Temptalia.com is a good site for everyday looks to night looks.
  7. Love yourself. Above all else, being taken seriously by men can be a grueling task. It is a sad fact of life that many women are unhappy with themselves no matter what they do. In a society torn about what it wants women to be, either an independent thinker or a quiet timid thing only meant to be looked at-the responsibilities of women in today's world is daunting. Fighting to be heard and taken seriously, not just by men but by other women too is very hard. However if you truly love who you are and what you do, in time you will understand the role you have to play and how to become successful. These steps are just simple guides to try to make things a little easier along the way.


Warnings

  • Exercise caution when sharing your successes with others. Women who are confident and motivated are usually considered a threat to other women. Choose your friends wisely and keep all personal struggles and defeats to yourself and a close group of friends and family you can trust. Jealousy can make people do and say horrible things about another person, so it is always best to keep your guard up until a later date.
  • Being successful and being taken seriously comes with a few prices. Accept that not every man will respond favorably to your personality or efforts to make a way for yourself in this world. You maybe called a "bitch" or other names on rare occasions and sometimes there is nothing you can do about that, even with the best of intentions in mind.
  • Flattery and flirting is a natural reaction between men and women. When two people share the same hopes and aspirations and can enjoy good conversation and competition, romantic attraction can ensue. Remember your goals, work, reputation, and self respect. Carefully weigh the consequences of your actions before you act on them. Being taken seriously requires self control, and if you can demonstrate that to everyone you encounter-you will feel more confident in your abilities and you will have a clear understanding of where your boundaries are and where you stand as a person.


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When you go to a charter school it’s hard to get in fashion when you have to wear a uniform every single day. (except for free dress day.) So here’s some tips to help to get in fashion. #1 you don’t always have to wear a polo. You can just wear a regular shirt with a color and don’t forget to make sure it’s a school color. #2 you can wear scarfs if you want and what ever shoes you want (except flip-flops). So, go ahead and wear what you want on a day at school, even if you do go to a charter school.

Quick Matching Tips
Matching
See, when you get dressed in the morning sometimes you don't know what matches and what doesn't. So, all you need to do to tell if you match is to use your opinion to make sure it suits you. Make sure you like it. And, don't forget to make sure they match.


How to Tell if Something Matches
If you don't know if something matches all you have to do is make sure you like it. Just to be sure, if you really don't know, ask someone else.

A Day at the Mall

A  Day  at  the  Mall
When you go to the mall you want to look your best. Always wear your best skirt with the coolest pattern and your most spectacular shirt with your cutest sweater. But don’t forget about the shoes. Your favorite boots are the perfect accessory for a day at the mall. So you need all the cute clothes and stuff to go to the mall; but, now you need to add the accessories. Get all your jewelry together. So, now, choose your favorite ones. Now, what you need to do is pick out the ones that you absolutely LOVE and choose the ones that you want to wear and put them on!

Purses
When choosing a purse for the mall it’s a very big problem if you have a lot of purses. But pick the purse that’s your favorite color! And if you don’t have one that’s your favorite color just pick your favorite purse.

Just Fun
Make sure you have a purse full of cash if you plan on spending any money. Always shop at the best stores. And remember have fun!


The Fun of Fashion

   The  Fun  of  Fashion
                                                       
Fashion Tips
Never wear Purple with Green, but Pink and Black are always a hit with a hint of White. Don’t ever wear shorts with leggings. Well, in my opinion, I hate it. I mean like it just looks weird. What do people think when they put them on? But, I guess it’s cute. I mean, sometimes I might wear them but they still do look weird to me. But everyone has a different opinion.


Don’t Forget to Match

When you get dressed in the morning don’t forget to match. Just pick things that match, that still screams “you”, but is still cute.


Fashion Sense

Fashion Sense
You know how you never know what to wear on your date? Well, here’s a couple of tips for some help. #1 always wear his favorite color or yours so they can see what you like. That way you can also see their favorite color. Also, use your top three purses so you impress him. Make sure your purse matches your outfit.

Fashion Flash
Wear a hat with everything you can. A hat is the perfect accessory with the right outfit.


Purse Care
Make sure to take care of your purse. It’s a good idea. First, keep your purse in open air and make sure it can stand up on a table or flat surface. Try not to get any stains or tears on your purse.


Make-up
Always wear make-up that matches your outfit. And don’t forget to look like yourself.


Published on Jul 24, 2013
Watch African Movies, Watch Nigerian Nollywood Movies, Watch Latest movies, Classic Nollywood Movies, 2013 Latest movies. As the story continues, Olivia (Nuella Njubigbo) becomes a victim of the matron's wickedness, After being drugged, raped and died as a result of the overdose drugs given to her by the Matron's son Shadrack (Mike Ezuruonye) they both conspired and buried her in their backyard a decision they will regret utterly. Watch and Enjoy


AAUA pulls out of ASUU’s strike, orders students to resume on Monday
The Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba Akoko (AAUA) in Ondo State has pulled out of the ongoing Academic Staff Union of Universities’ (ASUU)strike.

In a statement issued and signed by its Registrar, R.B Olotu, the school had ordered its students to resume for the second semester on November 25th, 2013, thereby boycotting the nationwide strike.

Already, the ongoing industrial action has lasted for over four months.

The statement reads, “All Students of AAUA are hereby informed that academic activities of the 2nd semester of 2012/2013 session truncated as a result of the ASUU national strike are to resume on Monday, 25th November, 2013 with the continuation of registration on the University portal, while lectures are to start on Mon, 2nd December, 2013.


Watch African Movies, Watch Nigerian Nollywood Movies, Watch Classic and recent movies, 2013 latest Nollywood movies. Doctors and nurses are always the best of friends to the sick ones despite the fact that no one wants to be in and out of the hospital, however, the heartless case of the Matron Character played by Patience Ozokwor contradicts to what is expected of a matron. Just is a knot shell: the Matron does not care about you rather she inflicts more pain on you if that is what it takes to put the extra bucks in her pocket. Watch and Enjoy!




Nwankwo (Nkem Owoh) for many years made his daughter, Chiadika (Nuella Njubigbo)  believe that he is her uncle. He fights so hard to ensure she does not toe the footsteps of her mother who caused him terrible heartbreak. As the youth corp member  Samantha (Kate Henshaw) comes to the village for her National youth service programme, Nwankwo confides in her. The big question is how long will that remain a secret.

Casts - Nkem Owoh, Kate Henshaw, Nuella Njubuigbo,Emmanuel Mordi, Chris Nkulo

Production House - O Gabby Innovations

Producer - Okey Okonkwo
 
Director - Tchidi Chikere
Year Of Production - 2012

 
 
 
 
 




An interesting comedy movie that tells the story of two brothers, Ogbu(Chinedu Ikedieze) and Kalu(Osita Iheme), who did so many silly act including making love charm, just to get the woman of their dream.

Casts - Osita Iheme, Chinedu Ikedieze, Chinwetalu Agu, Stella Ikwuegbu, Gradiel Onwudike

Production House - Elochukwu Anigbogu

Producer - Elochukwu Anigbogu

Director - Charles Inojie

Year Of Production - 2006




Watch free Nigerian movies, hot and interesting Nigerian Nollywood Movie. Jonah's (John Okafor) greed would not let him allow his wife to have a share of his money. He finds himself into politics and is soon defrauded by his friends that seem to be the beginning of his problem as his wife prepares to give him her own exit plan. Watch as the movie unfolds!!

Casts -  John Okafor, Dede One-day, Prince Nwafor,Pat Oguamanam, Chijioke Jonas

Production House - Cosnoris Poduction

Producer - Christian Ndulue

Director - Obi Callys Obinali

Year Of Production - 2011

 



 

Watch African Movies, Watch Nigerian Nollywood Movies, Latest movies, Classic Movies, 2013 new release. In this thrilling Nollywood Comedy, Nkem Owoh plays the role of a self acclaimed good man who live by every standard of morality. The entire village so buys into his supposed morality and soon messages are run through him, every one sends good and message to their love ones through him but still one crucial question is yet to be answered, what is the mystery behind this man's righteousness? I'd rather you find it out yourself.

Casts - Nkem Owoh, Camila Mberekpe, Rita Arum, Henry Chukwu, Gaddiel Onwudike

Production House - Cosnoris International

Producer - Christian Ndulue

Director - Emeka Jonathan

Year Of Production - 2009




Hot and Interesting Nigerian and Nollywood Movie. As the story continues from "Wise Attraction" Odili is determined to ruin the union of Oyeoma and Emenike. He goes spiritual and finally succeeds in making their marriage miserable leaving her at the mercy of prostitution if her family is to survive

Casts - Ini Edo, Yul Edochie, Ngozi Ezeonu,Clem Ohamneze , Emechebe Onyeka

Production House - P. Collins Production

Producer - Chinedu Collins Ezenwa

Director  - Tchidi Chikere

Year Of Production - 2013




Mabel (Oma Nnadi) shows the true meaning of friendship,coming from a rich background she is ready to sacrifice her all just to make her best friend Salindra (Lizzy Gold Onuweze) happy.Unfortunately the both of them where involved in a car accident which landed Mabel on a wheel chair.Now she is frustrated and needs a true friend around her.Can Salindra be trusted? WATCH AS THE MOVIE UNFOLDS!!!

Casts - Mike Ezuruonye, Walter Anga, Oma Nnadi, Chinyere Wilfred, Lizzygold Onuwaje, Livinus Nnochiri

Production House - Allmark Movies

Producer - Ephraim Arinze

Director  - Austin Faani Ikechukwu

Year Of Production - 2013

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